Many teens spend less time with their families then they did as younger children. As they become more independent and learn to think for themselves, relationships with friends become very important. Sometimes it may feel like your teen doesn't need you anymore -- but teens still need their parents' love, support, and guidance.

Tips to keep in mind:

• Have family meals - if not every night, schedule a regular weekly family dinner night that accommodates your child's schedule.
• Share "ordinary" time. Even times spent driving or working the dog together offer chances for your teen to talk about what going on.
• Set clear limits. Teens still need our guidance - feeling alone/feeling in charge are scary thoughts for young people growing in independence. Involve your teen in setting rules and consequences - yet choose your battles. Try to provide choices in the matters that are less important.

Your words and actions help your teen feel secure. Don't forget to say and show how much you love your teenager!  - Learn more at www.childwelfare.gov/ preventing.