By Olivia Giegerich, Foster Care Case Manager
There was a brief silence on the phone as the college advisor paused to formulate her next remark.
“He’s 19 and in foster care?” she said.
Yes he is. John has been in care since he was 14, when his adoptive parents gave him up - a fact far more astonishing, if you ask me, than his circumstances today.
Nearly six-feet-tall, John doesn’t walk so much he strides. A mixed martial arts afficianado, he once fought in the ring as an amateur (for the record, against all remonstrance from me and his support team). He broke a finger but he’ll tell you, with a subdued, sly smile, that he won.
Still, that graceful stride belies an extreme hesitance to communicate his own needs and wants. When I met him nearly two years ago, John verged on a stutter.